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Sep. 22nd, 2008 | 07:23 pm

Well, according to my ex, along with some other friends here, I've apparently changed. They're saying that I'm doing things that I usually don't do. The main thing they've said is that I have found a new girlfriend-ish relatively so soon. I've known her for almost three weeks, and we as of just last week started to "go out". By that, I mean hang out, cuddle, and some kissing. They're comparing this to last year, where it took nearly three months for this to happen.

So am I really different? I've been taking ADD medicine, starting a couple months ago, so maybe that may be a factor? I'm at 40mg, but that may be too much.

So people that talk to me, have I changed?

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The Faceless Evil

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from: [info]thefacelessevil
date: Sep. 22nd, 2008 11:37 pm (UTC)
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Sup Rammy! Well, personally, I've only known you since Feburary and you've been about the same. Decent, chatty, fun, honest person.

But here's the deal: We're SUPPOSED to change. Heck, I change every year. Sure, I have a base which guides my moral compass, but overall I'm open to new experiences which means I'm a vastly different person now at 24 then I was at 22.

PLUS we have experience to guide us. It may have taken longer with your first girlfriend for a number of reason, one of them being inexperience. Now that you know better what you want out of a girl, you pick girls who are better FOR you, and you feel more confident to taking more intimate steps.

Or she could just be a quick 'rebound' girl... either way, she'll be good for you in the long run. She'll either turn into a wonderful relationship, or excellent life/relationship experience.

Orrrr... you could be more 'focused' due to the meds, and thus you can keep your brain on task. i.e. "Yay let's cuddle-- oh look something shiney" turns into "Yay let's cuddle." and you actually make it to the cuddling.

But yeah, that's just me rambling. :)

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